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Let’s face it—just the idea of planning a big vacation can feel overwhelming, especially when you start thinking about the cost. Flights, hotels, meals, tickets, gas, extra fun…it adds up fast. I’ve been there. As busy parents with full schedules (and a tight budget), we started early figuring out ways to save for family vacations. Having grown up as a military BRAT, family travel was a big part of my life and still is. My daughters grew up in a family of two public school teachers and many times, we were questioned as to HOW we can afford to take such great family vacations. Family vacations are a priority for us, and we figured out how to make it work.
- Start with your total budget
- Prioritize what matters most
- Travel during shoulder season
- Mix up your meals
- Book stays with perks
- Expect the unexpected
It wasn’t without trial and error though. Take our first trip to Grand Teton National Park back in 2009. I had planned out the flights, the rental car, our lodging near Jackson Hole—everything was lining up beautifully. But what I didn’t do was budget for meals. I was so used to our Disney trips, where the dining plan took care of everything, that I completely underestimated how much we’d spend feeding a hungry family of four out West. By day three, we had blown through the food part of our budget. Lesson learned: food is not included when you leave the magic bubble of Disney!
But that trip, hiccups and all, became one of our favorites—and it kicked off a whole new way of thinking about travel planning. Over the years, I’ve learned that you can take amazing vacations without blowing your budget. In fact, having a solid plan in place has helped us travel more often, with less stress, and more joy. And here’s the kicker: budgeting for a trip doesn’t take the fun out of it—it actually helps create space for the fun to happen.
In this post, I’m sharing the real tips and tricks we’ve picked up through trial, error, and a whole lot of road trips, flights, and family memories. Whether you’re saving for your first big adventure or trying to make your next trip even more doable, read on!
So grab a cup of coffee, open your notes app (or your favorite notebook), and let’s dive into how to budget smartly, dream big, and make your next family getaway not just possible—but unforgettable.
1. Dream First, Budget Second
Before we even talk numbers, spreadsheets, or bank accounts, I always tell families: start with the dream.
This is a huge part of my DREAM → DESIGN → DEPART method for planning an amazing family vacation. It might sound backwards—shouldn’t we start with what we can afford and plan from there? But here’s what I’ve learned from years of family travel:
When you lead with the dream, you spark motivation. When you lead with the budget, you sometimes shrink the possibilities before they even get a chance to grow.
Where the Magic Begins - Some of our most memorable trips began with just that—a dream.
One year, we knew we wanted to start our vacation in Grand Teton National Park. That part was locked in—we were all craving those big skies, mountain hikes, and cool alpine mornings again.
But then came the fun part: Where next? We sat down as a family and tossed around ideas:
Should we head north into Yellowstone?
Drive west toward California?
Or go south into Utah?
We kept circling back to the red rock canyons we’d only seen in books and photos. Eventually, our dream took shape: a road trip from Grand Teton to Arches and Canyonlands, with a scenic detour through Park City. It wasn’t the shortest route—but it was the right one for us. It felt adventurous, fresh, and perfectly “Rahn family.”
Make Dreaming a Family Affair
This early stage is where everyone gets a voice. We’ll each share:
A place we’ve always wanted to see
An activity we’ve been itching to try
A view we’ve only seen in pictures or reels
Our unforgettable visit to Antelope Canyon? That started with an Instagram post my oldest daughter sent me.
Kids can be surprisingly thoughtful (and creative!) when they feel included. And often, their ideas are more budget-friendly than you might expect.
Tip: Start with Dreams, End with Direction
Once you’ve tossed around ideas, start identifying trip priorities together:
Are we craving adventure or relaxation?
Is there a bucket-list destination in mind?
Or is it more about quality time anywhere new?
Having this shared vision helps focus your planning—without squashing the excitement. You might not check every box, but you’ll land on a destination and vibe that feels exciting and meaningful to everyone.
Remember: Budgeting is so much easier (and way more fun!) when you know what you’re working toward. So give yourselves permission to dream big—you never know where it might take you.
2. Know Your Numbers
Once you’ve dreamed up your perfect vacation vibe, it’s time to get real about the dollars and cents. Knowing your numbers doesn’t mean locking everything in stone—it just means having a ballpark idea of what things will cost so you can plan accordingly.
Start by breaking down your total trip budget into the big categories:
Travel – Flights, gas, rental car, tolls, airport parking
Lodging – Hotels, vacation rentals, resort fees, taxes
Food – Restaurants, groceries, coffee stops, snacks
Experiences – Tours, activities, park passes, museum entry
Extras – Tips, souvenirs, airport snacks, parking, Wi-Fi fees
Tip: Don’t forget those sneaky costs! They add up fast—think bottled water at the airport, tipping your tour guide, or the parking meter at the beach. Build a little breathing room into each category.
No matter the method, the goal is to have a clear, organized look at your vacation budget. Even a quick back-of-the-napkin breakdown can help avoid that “how did we spend that much?!” moments later on.
3. The Art of Saving Ahead
Once you know what your dream trip might cost, the next step is giving your future self the gift of preparation. Saving ahead doesn’t have to feel like a sacrifice—it can actually build excitement and turn vacation planning into a family project.
Set Up a Dedicated Vacation Fund
Open a separate savings account just for travel and nickname it something fun like “Tetons 2021” or “Family Vacations.” This makes it easier to track progress and harder to accidentally dip into for everyday expenses.
Automate transfers, even if it’s just $25 a week. That’s $100/month or $1,200/year—enough to make a big dent in your budget without feeling like a stretch.
Make the Most of Windfalls
Tax refund? Birthday money? That surprise bonus? Funnel unexpected income right into your vacation fund. Even small windfalls—like selling a piece of furniture or side gig earnings—can add up fast.
Get the Whole Family Involved
Saving can be a team effort and a great way to build anticipation:
Kids can pitch in through chores, allowance, lemonade stands, or selling old toys and games.
Create a vacation savings jar and let them drop in loose change or their own contributions. This is one of our favorites and we can accumulate upwards of $100 for incidentals through loose change.
Use a simple visual tracker (like a thermometer or printable map) so everyone sees progress toward the goal.
Saving together not only gets you closer to your destination, it also gives kids a sense of ownership and pride in the experience.
Tip: Frame saving as part of the adventure. “We're skipping takeout this weekend so we can try a fancy restaurant in Jackson.” feels a lot more exciting than “We’re cutting back.”
Create a fun visual tracker—like a suitcase that gets “filled” with savings, or a paper chain where each link represents $10 closer to your goal. The more engaged everyone is, the more fun it becomes.
4. Score Deals Like a Pro
Here’s a secret: a dreamy vacation doesn’t have to come with a sky-high price tag. You just need to know when, where, and how to book. With a few tried-and-true tools and a little bit of strategy, you can unlock major savings—without sacrificing experience.
Book Flights at the Right Time
Timing is everything when it comes to airfare.
Sweet spots: Typically, book 1–3 months ahead for domestic and 3–6 months ahead for international. We tend to start pricing flights a year out to get a sense of the cost and then watch them and buy when the price is low.
Midweek wins: Flying on Tuesdays or Wednesdays often means cheaper fares.
Flexible dates = flexible prices: Use a flexible date search to find the cheapest days to fly.
Investigate one-way tickets. Sometimes two different reservations can be less expensive than round trip, especially if you are flying in and out of different locations.
Tip: Use Google Flights with price tracking turned on. It’ll alert you when prices drop on your chosen route—so you can book confidently and skip the second-guessing.
Snag Great Stays Without Blowing the Budget
From boutique hotels to cozy cabins, you’ve got more options than ever—and the best deals go to those who book smart:
Compare prices across platforms like Booking.com, VRBO, and Airbnb
Look for family-friendly perks: free breakfast, kitchen access, laundry
For longer stays, message hosts directly—many will offer a better rate for a week or more
Book directly through the hotel site, often the hotel provides cheaper rates and sometimes added amenities and special deals. Search engines don't offer as much as directly through the hotel does.
Consider staying just outside the most popular spots. A 15-minute drive can mean huge savings and a quieter, more local experience. This was very true for us when we visited The Grand Canyon and stayed outside the park. Much less expensive and a great hotel!
Use Loyalty Points and Travel Rewards
If you’re not using points and rewards, you’re leaving money on the table.
Airline miles, hotel points, and credit card rewards can cover flights, stays, or even excursions
Many family travelers love cards that earn flexible travel points (like Chase Sapphire or Capital One Venture)
Sign-up bonuses alone can sometimes fund an entire flight—or more!
Tip: As your vacation nears, check back with the hotels you've booked with. Many times they offer seasonal packages as the season approaches and they will apply the package price to your reservation, (even if you made the reservation eight months ago).
This happened to us when we made reservations at The Bellagio in Las Vegas. I called 2 months before we left to see if they had any packages or summer rates, and they offered me a different rate and we saved $600.
Bottom Line: Great deals do exist—you just need the right tools, a little flexibility, and the know-how to pounce when the timing’s right.
5. Spend Smart While Traveling
You've planned, saved, and scored some sweet deals—now it’s time to enjoy the trip! But even the best-planned vacation can go off-budget fast if you're not intentional once you're on the road. The key? Balance. Be thoughtful with your spending without sacrificing fun.
Food Budgeting = Flavor + Flexibility
Eating out can be one of the biggest travel expenses—but it’s also part of the experience. The trick is mixing splurges with smart choices:
Grocery runs: Stock up on breakfast basics, snacks, and picnic supplies (especially if you’ve got a kitchen or fridge).
One meal out a day: Choose whether lunch or dinner will be your restaurant splurge.
Local markets = gold: Farmers markets and food trucks are budget-friendly and delicious.
Tip: Let each family member pick one “must-eat” spot during the trip—everyone gets something special, and you avoid the random, pricey meals that don’t feel worth it.
Free (or Nearly Free) Fun Is Everywhere
Not everything worth doing has a price tag. Some of the best family memories come from the simplest experiences:
National parks, city parks, scenic drives, and beach days
Free museum days, cultural festivals, or walking tours
Hotel or resort activities (many include free family programming!)
Ask a local or check community calendars—small-town events, concerts, or pop-up fairs can be hidden gems.
Set a Daily Allowance for Extras
Souvenirs, snacks, spontaneous treats—they add up quickly! Set a realistic daily or trip-long allowance for each person to manage as they choose.
Give kids a set amount of “fun money” they can spend however they like—it builds budgeting skills and stops the “Can I get this?” marathon.
Tip: Use prepaid travel cards or a simple envelope system to track spending. When the day’s allowance is gone, it’s gone. No guilt, no stress.
Big Takeaway: You don’t need to nickel-and-dime your way through vacation. Just make a few smart moves ahead of time so you can actually enjoy the experience without money worries tagging along.
6. Expect the Unexpected & Wrap-Up
Even the most detailed plans can get thrown off — a missed flight, a surprise detour, or a spontaneous “we-have-to-do-this” moment. That’s why it’s essential to build a buffer into your vacation budget. A little financial cushion gives you flexibility and peace of mind when the unexpected shows up (because it will!).
Like the time we said yes to adventure...
While visiting Moab, we took an evening stroll through town and wandered into a local adventure outfitter. On a whim, we booked a Hummer tour for the next day — a thrilling ride across Hell’s Revenge and the iconic slickrock trails. It wasn’t part of our original plan, but because we had some wiggle room in the budget, we were able to say “yes” to an unforgettable experience we never would’ve expected.
Tip: Add 10–15% of your total trip budget as a contingency fund. If you don’t end up needing it, it can roll over into your next adventure (or cover a fun splurge at the end of the trip!).
We’d love to hear from you! What’s your favorite money-saving travel tip or budget win? Share it in the comments below — your advice might be just what another family needs to make their next trip even better!
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Let’s make your next trip one for the memory books — and the budget sheets!
Thanks for Reading!
At Seldom A Dull Moment, we believe that family travel doesn’t have to be chaotic or costly — it just needs a little intention. Budgeting isn’t about cutting corners; it’s about creating space for what matters most: shared experiences, spontaneous adventures, and unforgettable memories.
Whether you’re still dreaming about your next getaway, ready to design the perfect plan, or gearing up to depart, I’m here to help you every step of the way.
Because with the right mindset, a little strategy, and a whole lot of heart, family travel can be anything but dull.
Let’s dream, design, and depart — together.
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